tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42349271647350064182024-02-07T02:23:38.846+00:00C's WorldSharing experiences to ignite conversations about relationships and life in generalChantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-87947738724053005642016-11-15T22:52:00.000+00:002016-11-15T22:52:08.516+00:00TOLERANCE, AN IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP VIRTUE
*walks in, looks around and starts clearing all the cobwebs..lool* Yes i know i have away...dollar is high..that's my excuse and i'm sticking to it.
‘I hate how she presses the toothpaste from the middle and not the
bottom’
‘Oh and let’s not even talk about the fact that he doesn’t replace the
cap back on after using the toothpaste’
And then what? I ask.
Often times I wonder why Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-30939968783253535342016-05-10T14:14:00.000+01:002016-05-10T14:14:41.787+01:00Who are you?
‘Don’t be too successful and
chase the men away’ she said and I replied; ‘if a man is scared of my success
then that’s not the kind of man I want to be with’…so I looked at him and asked
‘are men really scared of strong successful women? He pauses for a while then says; ‘the honest
truth is men like strong successful women and every woman wants same from her
man but there is moreChantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-46890134778749400772016-04-13T10:46:00.000+01:002016-04-13T13:34:45.808+01:00Blogger & OAP Elsie Godwin, Releases New Photos to Celebrate another year in her life
Blogger & OAP, Elsie Godwin,
Releases New Photos To Celebrate Her Birthday
Elsie Godwin, a final year student of Lagos
State University, is a Nigerian Entrepreneur who has carved a niche as a
prolific Lifestyle and Relationship online and on-air personality.
In 2014 she identified and saw the need to
be heard, her strong opinion on relationship and Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-18405850453268955322016-03-30T23:37:00.001+01:002016-03-30T23:37:44.139+01:00What happened to Romance?
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First of happy new year! Let's pretend I've being here all along.
Hold up! Before we get into the
crux of the matter *takes a look at Elsie, wink wink*, let me make something
very clear. I am not and I repeat I
am not an overly romantic person.
Maybe I’m just ‘old fashioned’ when it comes to dating? I don’t know.
But anyway, I’ve noticed a trend as of late that hasChantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-24818956230141961352015-11-23T15:42:00.000+00:002015-11-23T15:42:03.408+00:00Cheating
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So I saw this screenshot message
from an older woman telling all younger women how to act in their marriages. She
was of the opinion that ‘all men cheat’. Hours after, my cousin sends me a link
to the picture and we start to talk about it. So she’s saying to me that she
has friends who have told her the same thing and she wanted to know my opinion
about it.
Personally I Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-55944479845700052102015-11-13T11:25:00.003+00:002015-11-13T11:25:44.996+00:00The Sisterhood Award
i got tagged in this award (pic above) by the ever wonderful Honeydame. I was suppose to respond to this like ages ago but procastination is a rubbish thing. Anyhow i've decided to get around to it before the award is taken away *smile*. Here we go.
1. What is your secret weapon to lure the opposite sex, boy/girlfriend, husband/wife, potential? (hahahahaha, for the heck of it)Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-58644116106435644362015-06-17T17:16:00.001+01:002015-06-17T17:17:20.808+01:00My Lagos Journey
This is not my usual kind of post
but I just had to write about this. This is a story of my Lagos experience. Is that even the right title for this post? anyway, Would
I consider myself an aje butter? Ermmm I think so. But hey I have kpaki in me.
Let’s just say I can be whatever I
want to be. Is me that have myself abi? Anyway sha back to the matter. I am one
of those people who would be Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-86625622614400431032015-04-28T12:31:00.001+01:002015-04-28T16:29:25.308+01:0025 Thoughts on Love, Relationships, Friendships and becoming a better me.
I have been away but I am kind of back. Let’s just pretend I have been here all the while okay. Anyway in my away time, I did some reflecting and I put together 25 thoughts on love, relationship, friendship and becoming a better me.
1. Live with self-esteem at the heart of your interactions because if you don’t love you, you would end up acting without love, care, trust, and respect Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-31742302780557123032015-01-23T21:48:00.000+00:002015-01-23T22:34:12.721+00:00Broken Crayons
I don’t know about you, but I am my own worst critic. I’m
usually the first to notice my short comings and I would beat myself over and
over again for it.
As a child, I hated broken crayons. I just felt it was not
good enough to color. But then I would see someone else pick up the same
broken crayon and color with it and it would come out beautiful. What’s my point, well we Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-39242258528197310112015-01-07T19:46:00.000+00:002015-01-07T19:46:20.550+00:00Happy New Year and A Few Words
Happy 2015.
Greetings from C’s World. So I’m
still in the holiday mode seeing that I spent half of my holiday time ill anyway
and just when I’m recovering properly, it’s time to get back to work. Me no
like. But me need money…so okay.
I want to thank you all for
taking the time to read my thoughts on relationships and self-esteem. Your
support means a lot and I am humbled that I've Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-27494080385077455502014-12-21T18:02:00.001+00:002014-12-21T18:02:17.420+00:00Merry Christmas from C's World
I LOVE Christmas. I love all the
smell of roasted chicken, Jollof rice, cake, Alcohol and do you know that you
can eat as much as you want? No guilt. This is the time I would eat salad with
cream in it and not feel guilty. And do you know that the taste of Xmas jollof
rice is very different? Yes it is indeed. I love knackered family traditions
that make no sense but would be sacrilege to Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-38852617670874751942014-12-16T08:22:00.001+00:002014-12-16T08:22:38.092+00:00Size. What does it Matter?!
Like seriously, is it a competition or is it just from
insecurity?
Every time a guy tells me how big his ding dong is and how
great of a sex partner he is, it just makes me laugh. Like honestly what’s the
point really? If I haven’t asked you, why in the world are you telling me?
Infact why are you trying to convince me of how great you are in bed? Are you
trying to convince me or is it Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-33294839455008062692014-12-15T10:15:00.000+00:002014-12-15T10:15:40.296+00:00The Unpleasables
Forgive my absence..work has being kicking me left, right,
centre.
It hurts when the realisation hits you that when it comes to
certain people or a certain someone in your life, nothing and I mean absolutely
nothing, zilch is ever enough. You
could literally walk over hot coal, have fireworks shooting out of your ears,
agree with everything that they say and they’ll do the equivalent of, ‘Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-17558791461838744832014-11-12T20:37:00.001+00:002014-11-12T20:37:39.124+00:00'I Can Change Him Syndrome'
The ‘I can change him’ syndrome
occurs when a woman focuses all of her energies on fixing anything she deems to
be incorrect about her man. So basically, like a house, you renovate your man
and if you’re lucky, you get to hold onto him, but sometimes that man may just
get cocky and put himself up on the market for a new lady owner because after
you've finished making him attractive to you, he’s Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-31931685110619682582014-11-04T16:58:00.002+00:002014-11-04T16:58:25.690+00:00Getting Dumped: From My Perspective
PS: It’s my view so pardon me for
speaking about it only from my own perspective. So if you get confused just go
back and read the title.
Breaking up for many is a hard
task. It’s hard for both parties really. The initiator and the reactor.
Personally, I have been on both sides of the slate, and I would have to say
it’s painful on both ends. But I must say that it totally sucks when Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-28259221082328269302014-10-22T18:23:00.002+01:002014-10-22T20:58:51.881+01:00He's bad in bed!
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I think we’d all like to say that
every guy we’ve slept with was an amazing lover, but let’s be frank here, if
you've slept with a few people, there’s been at least one bad lover. Just think
about it. However, remember that it takes two to tango. You can’t just lie
there like a sack of potatoes and expect him to do all of the work without
communicating if you dislike something he’s Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-12937720729642662862014-10-09T19:57:00.000+01:002014-10-10T07:40:48.146+01:0020 Random Facts About Moi
I got tagged by the ever so beautiful Toin. So I am obliged
to do a 20 random fact tag about my beautiful self. Yes I know you have being
dying to know about me cause am awesome like that. If you say I lie go call
police. Read and enjoy.
I cannot I repeat cannot do without internet. Like
when I don’t have internet I feel like my whole world would collapse.
Sometimes I am Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-82158061408901873482014-09-25T00:54:00.004+01:002014-09-25T00:54:42.639+01:00Body Count- Is it necessary?
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You know there used to be a time
when people were very uncomfortable talking about sex openly but now it seems
like that’s the ‘new cool’. I judge not. Am just amazed at how everyone is now
being so open about it. (ermm no am not tbh) Okay we are all sinners…shikena. Anyway so this post is
as a result of some #NHBi thing I saw on Twitter… (Mind you I have no idea what
#NHBi Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-62719517913422020902014-09-14T20:42:00.000+01:002014-09-14T20:46:39.124+01:00Why are you single
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People sure know how to ask
stupid questions really. But as a single person, with time yeah you become
fodder for oodles of stupidity because for some reason your life is seen as
being less than that of someone who is attached. I am of the opinion that some
people who are attached are secretly envious of singles as we are footloose and
fancy free. However, this doesn't stop me from Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-67450807458716003642014-09-06T00:04:00.001+01:002014-09-06T00:04:57.074+01:00Close your legs
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With great power comes great
responsibility. So I think it’s time some girls (me included) started taking
responsibility for some men being ‘Jerks’. Frankly, there is more to a girl
demanding respect for herself instead of just screaming at guys when they act
like…well GUYS.
Am tired of girls whining about
how a guy ‘wronged’ them when they give the guy a reason to be stupid by
Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-77126510960145728852014-08-26T19:45:00.000+01:002014-08-26T19:56:57.678+01:00Things you shouldn't give up for love or a relationship
Love for me isn’t being with
someone who makes you feel weak, like you can’t do anything without them. No
one needs love that would keep reminding them of their weaknesses. Instead find
love that knows your weaknesses but still tells you you’re strong. Love that
encourages you. Makes you feel strong and when you fall picks you up and tells
you it’s okay to fall. A love that makes you feel Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-25163131452277709382014-08-12T21:31:00.001+01:002014-08-26T19:22:18.877+01:00Why won't you love me baby?
Sometimes we come across people
we like hoping that they would like us back. But however, this person might
just be so wounded from past relationships that at the moment they are
emotionally unavailable and have baggage so full it can fill an airport terminal.
Even with that, we tend to think that perhaps with us it just might be
different…why? Because you think you can see past their Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-32519860096035305842014-08-04T19:17:00.000+01:002014-08-04T19:17:19.436+01:00Lazy Communication
You see am the kind of girl who
likes to text. Jeez I can text all day and never get tired. But I also like
phone calls too. So let me be clear about something, nobody and I mean
absolutely nobody is soooooo busy that they can only manage to text, email or
instant message you. Somewhere along the line, people
find time to call even if it’s just for a minute.
When a man relies primarily Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-58605300158317011402014-07-29T23:34:00.000+01:002014-07-29T23:34:39.313+01:00Standards and Expectations
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It is wisdom that women need to
set standards for themselves. Men respect standards. But the truth is everyone
(maybe not everyone) has standards; or needs respect. Knowing yourself and what
you want can be very powerful and attractive. However, unless the object of
your interest is a mind-reader, better communicate and communicate clearly what
you want or risk losing a great Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4234927164735006418.post-12768529782479298962014-07-28T19:40:00.002+01:002014-07-28T19:41:27.824+01:00Change
They say you cannot step into the
same water twice. True that. So for those of you who are wondering why I keep
changing my blog look or whatever, please forgive me, am sorry. But am only
trying to make it look better and sound better and have interesting stuff for
you people to read so I don’t bore you. So many thanks to Toperants, a female 'blog consultant' and Chantel Marthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08562776764093617568noreply@blogger.com4